The warmth that radiates from a dinner party with friends is second to none. Wine swirled in glasses, candle light flickering and delicious food are simple joys that should be savored. A relaxed and casual table sets the tone, inviting you to settle into your chair and linger over good conversation.
If you’re drawn to a gathering that has just such a relaxed vibe, here’s how to set a table that'll put your guests instantly at ease.
photos by Michelle Nash
Lay The foundation
A California table is marked by layered textures, a neutral and sun washed color palette, and most importantly, a touch of imperfection. A relaxed dinner party starts with a linen table throw—its natural rumple adds to the charm. A table throw elevates a dinner party experience, even if the edges are rough and the dimensions are imperfect—the perfect backdrop for what’s to come.
An artisan touch
Anchor each place setting with sturdy handmade dinnerware—if each plate is slightly different than the one next to it, even better! It makes it feel like a functional work of art.
We prefer linen napkins over paper ones, especially for a dinner party. Simply drape or fold your linen napkins gently on the plate, or right beside it. Just remember that the charm of a casual, California table are the imperfections. Linen napkins get softer with time, and there’s no need to save them for hosting. They’re just as much at home at a dinner party as they are on Wednesday night.
Flatware comes next—teak flatware is unfussy and timeless, and will add an earthy, grounded energy to the table that compliments the linens and stoneware beautifully.
Raise a glass
A mix of wine glasses and casual tumblers are essential. Set glasses to the right of each guest's place, and don’t worry if there’s slight asymmetry. Your glassware should feel good in your hands, and sturdy enough that no one should feel the need to be delicate with them. Wine, cocktails, mocktails and the like can flow freely and easily.
Serve with confidence
The ease of a casual dinner party means passing around generously sized wooden salad bowls and well made serving platters full of food. There’s so much joy to be shared over crusty bread with butter, a colorful salad bursting with flavor, and a stunning main dish that’s easy to enjoy. Serveware that fits in with the table and isn’t clunky or cumbersome makes the dinner party feel easy going and untroubled.
Create ambiance
Setting the table before your guests arrive is key, and creating a sense of ambiance will make your guests feel special and taken care of. The simplicity of a lit candle, flowers in a vase and the calm that rushes over you as you wait for guests is the magic of hosting. These little details signal to your loved ones that they’re in for a treat.
Your styling checklist
Start with a linen table throw
Add simple, neutral stoneware plates
Layer in linen napkins
Mix glassware styles
Add candles for glow and flowers for ambiance
Embrace imperfection
A well-set table has a way of transforming an ordinary evening into something memorable. With a few thoughtful layers—linen, candlelight, and a touch of the unexpected—you create an atmosphere that feels both elevated and entirely at ease. This is the essence of California-style hosting: unfussy, inviting, and designed for connection. Set the table, call your people, and let the night unfold.
